I agree about the look of a small amount of lowering!!
Its gone up 2",but I have been running 195/70x14" tyres so that lowered it a bit,it was just the right look and a tad more tread on the road!
But they are now knackered and ive bunged on a spare set that are a bit higher as they are std 185x14"s.
A new set of 195/65 tyres soon will hopefully bring it down about an inch'ish to a better level look whilst maintaining the benefits of the assisters.
I do use the boot for autojumbles and ive got a trailer.
I dont want to mess with adjusting it all the time,.
You would have to go for a fully height and damping adjustable spring /shock combo.
In std spec the spring you use,std,lower,uprated etc, determines the ride height, and the std adjustable shocks only stiffens or softens the damping of the bounce!"firm or floaty!"